tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2222417752138579992.post9009821834523318341..comments2023-04-02T23:16:23.986-05:00Comments on Cushing's Family: judycolbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03178633666261662585noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2222417752138579992.post-23045014151182971192008-07-30T20:49:00.000-05:002008-07-30T20:49:00.000-05:00Thanks Mary, I just thought I was being paranoid a...Thanks Mary, I just thought I was being paranoid about the pastor not ever asking me (even once) how the kids were. THEY HAD BRAIN SURGERY! Our old pastor always asked after Justin before we knew what was wrong. Later he asked about both kids and he was no longer our pastor then, he'd retired.judycolbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03178633666261662585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2222417752138579992.post-14920715946703267462008-07-28T14:22:00.000-05:002008-07-28T14:22:00.000-05:00Congratulations on making it back to church! I ca...Congratulations on making it back to church! I can understand your concern, though. <BR/><BR/>I had been a member of Sweet Adelines for 10 years. When I went back post-op the director didn't ask how I was, didn't comment on me being back, nothing. I never went back.<BR/><BR/>I'm not sure about that forwarding the emails thing. Maybe they do that so that others can add their prayers, but it would seem that just sending a list of people who needed prayers would be enough. <BR/><BR/>Emails can contain information you don't want shared with the whole congregation and I don't think it's right to forward those unless you were warned upfront that they did that for everyone.<BR/><BR/>New or not, the pastor should be paying better attention. Even if you weren't attending that much, his behavior is the kind that can send you looking for a more compassionate pastor,<BR/><BR/>Good luck to you with forward progress!MaryOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10543686626738305049noreply@blogger.com